A Family Update

I realize I haven’t blogged in a long time.  I literally have a dozen posts on my to do list.  For the last 9 months I have been having several to many migraines a week which has thrown a big wrench in my life.  I am seeing a good doctor and they are improving but I’m still hoping for much more relief.  That being said I am struggling to keep up with my daily duties with the kids, the house and business so most things on my “want to do list” are untouched.  Other than my migraines everyone is doing well.  Adam staying very busy with the business.  2013 is shaping up to be a great year for the business and we are so thankful after a relatively slow 2012.  Our lives pretty much consist of work, playing with the kids, spending time with family and friends, and church.  This is an exhausting and busy season but full of sweet and silly moments with the kids.

Caden is 3 1/2 and according to him a big boy.  Every time I say some thing about my little boy he always interrupts and reminds me that he is big now.  And he is big in a lot of ways.  Every morning he wakes up and gets dressed all by himself (in a Dynamo or firetruck shirt with shorts).  Last night was the first night he slept in underwear with no accidents!  He has been bravely going to mothers day out and having fun 2 days a week.  He spends most of his day being either a fireman or a duck.  I have no idea where the duck came from but he has been insisting he is a duck for over a month now.  He is constantly going on rescue missions.  When he gets bored of rescuing toys he tries to create emergencies by trapping Kennedy in a laundry basket or closet so he can rescue her.  She isn’t very enthusiastic about this game.  Caden is a walking encyclopedia when it comes to topics he is interested in.  He can lay out detailed plans about how to respond in every type of emergency.  He is also fascinated with volcanos after getting a magic school bus volcano kit for Christmas.  He can talk for at least 15 min straight about volcanos.  The same with dinosaurs and construction sites.  He is a great conversationalist.  He can talk, talk, talk all day long rarely even stopping for breaths.  He has an imaginary house where he has everything cool he has ever seen: cars, planes, rockets, motorhomes, beaches, hot tubs, giant playrooms, and at different times some or all of his friends live there and they play all day.  His house moves location often.  Sometimes it is really far away, sometimes he is my neighbor, and sometimes he lives next door to one of his grandparents.  I love his creativity and storytelling ability.  He is all boy when it comes to energy.  There is lots of running, jumping, and yelling involved when Caden plays.  I’m constantly telling him to use his inside voice which he does for one sentence and then switches to his loud voice or his siren sound.  Some days, especially when I have a headache, I think I may lose it before Adam gets home to roughhouse with him and let me sit in silence for a few minutes.  Caden is fun, but crazy

Kennedy is 16 months and changing fast!  My sweet baby girl has turned toddler.  She is running all over and exploring everything.  Her vocabulary is quickly expanding!  She can say please, thank you, food, milk, bottle and drink.  She says shoe, baby, book, ball, diaper, banana, stinky, stick, dog, woof, sunglasses, car and many other words I can’t think of.  She asks “What is this?” and says “It is…”  She knows all her facial features and a lot of body parts and articles of clothing.  Every day now she is learning a new word.  She usually only says the first syllable which can make her hard to understand but she is definitely communicating past her age.  All day long she walks around telling me what everything is.  One of her favorites is eye and then she sticks her finger in my eye.  There is also a lot we don’t quite understand but she very clearly is telling us something important.  A few days ago after dinner she sat down on the kitchen floor, took off her pants and diaper, walked into the bathroom and pointed to the potty.  I picked her up and let her sit on it.  Then she told me take a bath and led the way to the bathroom.  She then proceeded to poop in the tub with Caden and Adam in it.  That was Adam’s first and last bath with the kids  She loves her dolls.  She carries them around giving them bottles and burping them.  The other day I strapped her into her car seat and gave her a doll and she adamantly told me we needed a baby bottle.  She is learning to imitate us and Caden.  This morning she put Caden’s lunch box on her arm, walked over to me gave me a quick kiss, said bye bye, and then walked to the back door like she was leaving no doubt imitating Adam’s morning routine.  She dances and sings and anything can become a necklace.  She loves getting dressed up except she isn’t a fan of bows.  Kennedy has lots of opinions and when she doesn’t get her way she has started either turning into a deadweight or getting straight as a board, whichever makes it more difficult for me. She is getting into a testing phase which I’m sure will only get worse in coming months.  At least this time around I know it is all just a phase and it will indeed pass.  Overall though Kennedy is a really sweet little girl.  She is super friendly and freely gives kisses and love.  She adores her brother and loves his attention.  And nothing is better than her little smile and giggle.  I just can’t get over how fast she is growing up.

We took the kids out last weekend and got some pics of them.  As always I had a hard time narrowing them down

Kennedy has discovered her belly button.  She loves to look at it and find other people’s so beware

 

This sums up the kids so perfectly right now!

What a handsome dude! (I know I am biased )

They actually enjoy walking holding hands.  It is really sweet.

Until Caden starts running and doesn’t let go of her hand…

By this point Kennedy decided she had reached her smile limit for the day

No photo shoot is complete with out Caden jumping off something!

And then of course Kennedy wanted to jump off the steps too!  

Thanks for reading!

Kennedy is One!!!

I know I start off every milestone post with I can’t believe how fast time has flown but it is true!  I can’t believe my baby is one!!!  Kennedy has changed so much in the last two months.  Her sweet little personality has really started coming out, oh yeah and most importantly she is regularly sleeping through the night (sigh of relief!)  Kennedy is a happy, sweet little girl.  She always has giant smiles that she gives away freely and it is super easy to get her belly laughing.  She still adores her big brother and wants to do everything he can do often to his frustration

She likes to play with her dolls.  She will give them bottles, put them in the little stroller and push them around.  She isn’t always gentle and they are often upside down but she gets the idea.  She also loves cars.  She pushes them around all over the room just like she sees Caden do.  She also loves to jump on our little trampoline and eat sticks, dirt, leaves and grass.  Kennedy is definitely not afraid to get her hands dirty

Kennedy loves to play peekaboo and often sets it up herself.  I’ll look over and see a tiny head peeking around the couch and as soon as I make eye contact she giggles and goes back into hiding.  When we play with toys she has started hiding pieces behind her back from me which she also thinks is very funny.  Her other favorite game is for us to chase her while she squeals and crawls away (haven’t tried the walking version yet)

She took her first steps at 10 months and a week and officially started walking the day before her birthday.  She literally just woke up one day and decided she could walk.  Caden came home from school that day and said “Look my sister learned how to walk.”  She is able to stand up in the middle of the floor get her balance and continue on.  If she looses her balance while walking she just sits down instead of having gigantic spills like Caden did.  I hope this cautiousness continues.  Kennedy is a climber!  She climbs up slides, ladders, the stairs, chairs, tables, etc… (not so cautiously) She also has no fear of going down the slide.  She sits straight up on our little slide in the playroom and at the park on the big slide goes feet first on her belly.

Kennedy is a talker.  She looks you straight in the eyes and just babbles and talks all day long.  She even sounds like she is asking a question and pauses to let you answer.  In less than a year I am going to be getting an ear full between her and Caden!  The only words she regularly says are Dada and bottle.  Words I could swear she said (she usually will repeat it a few times to make sure we understand) are Mama (how unfair is that!), Papa, hair, all done, baby, brother, Caden, Grandma Holly, GG, and KK.  But like I said these all appeared to be intentional but never repeated so who knows?!

Kennedy is a giant one year old.  She goes for her check up next week so I’ll let you know how big.  I am currently switching her into 18-24 month clothes and some 2T!  I remember a few years ago finding a 24 months Happy First Birthday shirt on clearance and thinking it was on clearance because it should have said second birthday.  Haha that is exactly what my baby needed. I made her a birthday pettiskirt and head band so she wore solid white on top for her party  I just love having a baby doll to dress up!!!  Kennedy is such a blessing with her little sunshine smile.  We just love her to pieces.

Here are photos from her birthday party…It was rainbow themed

Thank you Pinterest for a great cake idea

The birthday girl!

I couldn’t decide which I liked better so you get both

One of her famous bow checks

She was getting pretty tired.  She spent a lot of the present time rolling around on Aunt Allie…

And lounging

Then she got into it!  Notice the bag on her arm?  That was all her

This lady got a lot of clothes!  More fun for mommy

She got tired again at cake time.  Caden stepped in and started singing and blew out her candle so it didn’t burn her.

At first she just looked at it but she eventually figured it out

She got this ride in car from Neicy and Papa which the kids all took turns pushing her around in until it got a little too crazy and we put it outside

I think she had fun.  I certainly did!

Introducing Kennedy Lynne Nyholt

Our sweet little girl made her appearance Monday September 26th at 6:31pm.  Despite being 4 weeks early she weighed 6 lbs 2 oz and was 19.5 inches long.  This post is a little late because apparently having babies isn’t simple for us.  As happened with Caden I got a serious case of Pregnancy-Induced Hypertension (PIH) on top of my already high blood pressure.  My doctors had been monitoring both me and Kennedy very closely particularly in my last trimester.  I had 4 ultrasounds in 3 weeks!  The Friday before she came my levels started looking off but I wasn’t quite 36 weeks so I was sent home for the weekend with the plan to deliver on Tuesday.  Luckily being the planner I am, and knowing I was getting worse quickly, Adam and I left for my doctors appointment on Monday morning prepared to deliver the baby that day which is exactly what happened.  Because of the complications I had another cesarian but I was able to avoid taking the dreaded Magnesium Sulfate I took last time.  Mostly I begged and pleaded to only give it to me as a last resort so I could remember the delivery (the first 24 hours of Caden’s birth are a complete fog).  Thankfully my body cooperated the last few hours while we were waiting for surgery and I remember holding my baby girl for the first time

Adam’s sister, Liz, came in on her day off to be our L&D nurse.  She delivered Caden also!

See, no Mag!

Caden came in before they took me back.  He wasn’t so sure about me in the hospital but he enjoyed exploring.

Such a sweetie!

Here she is!  Our little alien!

Her apgar scores were 9!

My moment I wanted

I LOVE this picture of Caden with all three Grandmas blowing Kennedy a kiss!!!

And here she is!

We got to hold her for a few minutes while I was in recovery but she was grunting which is bad so the nurses took her on to the nursery for evaluation.  The general nursery then sent her to the NICU.  The concern was that her breathing was labored and her lungs may not be fully developed.  This is very normal for 36 week old babies and having a c-section increases the risk more.  It wasn’t until late the next morning that they got me unhooked enough for us to go hold her in the NICU.  She had a feeding tube in for 2 days so I wasn’t able to breast feed her, but towards the end Adam and I took turns giving her bottles.

Adam spent a lot of time holding her in the NICU since I could only sit for short amounts of time without my blood pressure acting terrible.  I love this picture of them!  She is so alert and staring straight into her Daddy’s eyes!

She was also having a difficult time maintaining her body temperature.  Luckily we had little fleece sleepers and warm blankets to wrap her up with.  Plus she just looks cute

Finally after 2 days I get to nurse her.  She did well!

On the third evening she was released to the general nursery and we kept her in our room as much as they would allow.  Caden came up to visit with his new sister!

Isn’t she sweet?

Her going home outfit!  She was very fussy so the paci was necessary!  She only looked this cute for the wheelchair ride to the car.  Once we got in the car we had to bundle her back up so she wouldn’t get too cold.  They made her pass a car seat test where she sat for an hour and a half and maintained her own temperature before they would release her!

Here she is the next day at home.  She is 5 days in this pic.

It was an adventure but we feel so blessed to have this precious new life God has entrusted to us!  She just couldn’t be anymore perfect!